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Sent Sunday, October 9th, 2022

As the sun descends on a lovely fall day, I wanted to share with you two very important messages indicated by the graphics above.  First of all, Happy Canadian Thanksgiving. This week-end the weather so far has been perfect to showcase Southern Ontario in all its radiant fall glory.  Whatever you plan to do, enjoy the day.  However, it doesn’t happen very often but this week-end not only marks Canadian Thanksgiving but the beginning of Sukkot as well, which is our Thanksgiving holiday, in many ways.  We are lucky in some ways – our holiday lasts eight days.  It begins soon, at sundown and continues until sundown next Monday, when we begin Simchat Torah.

I wanted to especially send a greeting today because I wanted to share with you the results of our Sukkah building today. It was pointed out in earlier messaging that our Sukkah built years ago into the corner of the Jewish Community Centre in the back had been ruined by a winter storm.  The roof collapsed and pulled down some of the sides.  To rebuild it would have cost a lot of money today, so we opted to buy a reusable portable structure. We had a grand time putting it up today. I am including the pictures reflecting the efforts of the Chesed committee to craft decorations and the team today that met to erect and decorate our new sukkah.

Please be reminded that eating and drinking in the sukkah is a mitzvah, like hearing the sound of the shofar on Rosh Hashanah or eating Matzah at the Pesach seder and you have two opportunities to share food in the sukkah this week. Join us this Thursday morning at services at 8:00 to shake the lulav and then eat in the sukkah and again on Shabbat after services.

Following are the pictures I wanted to share. The first set are the chesed committee making chains for hanging in the sukkah and the second set are the five of us – David Fruitman, Serge and Seth Chriqui, Naomi Levanoni and myself erecting and decorating.

Please come and enjoy with us this week and fulfill the mitzvah.

Howard

Ladies from CBI’s Chesed Group hard at work, preparing decorations for the Sukkah!

L-R: Arlene Goodman, Karen Caplan, Esther Barak-Rubin, Mira Piasecki, Schula Jennings, Jeri Dehghani and Soraya Azari   

L-R: Mira Piasecki, Schula Jennings, Jeri Dehghani, Zoraya Azari, Pearl Katzman and Dolores Bonilla


Below – The Sukkah erection crew – Howard Slepkov, David Fruitman, Serge and Seth Chriqui & Naomi Levanoni


Posted  Thursday, October  6th, 2022

Dear Friends & Fellow Congregants The start of 5783 on our Jewish calendar has come and gone as it always does no matter what we think of it.  However, it has always been important in this community to ensure that services reflected the needs of our members and there were opportunities for social interaction and fellowship along the way.  Using those things as the basis of appraisal, I am happy to report that success is hardly enough to describe our observances these past two weeks. Those who participated found lots to like and even the few hiccups were overcome with little to no annoyance.
Such success hardly happens on its own and I would like to take just a few moments to thank those of our members who facilitated these last two weeks with little fanfare but much effort.At the top of the list is our Gabbait, Fanny Dolansky, who began working on important details like who would be called for pulpit honours and on which day.  This task was made more difficult since there are so many of you who decided whether or not to attend based upon our Covid-related policies.  In the end, Fanny ran a very smooth ship up on the bima and managed to deal politely with my slip-ups from time to time.
Next I want to acknowledge our two rabbis, Moshe and Harvey Meirovich. When Rabbi Moshe ended up in hospital with a very serious infection so close to the holidays, his first thought was how we were going to manage at C. B. I. without a rabbi. He enlisted the help of his brother Harvey who made our transition from one twin to the other seamless and our transition from Zoom to In-House painless and so much easier.  We thank both of them for the efforts on our behalf and Rabbi Harvey for his role in our excellent in-house services.
While not so much in the public eye, our fantastic office manager, Serge Chriqui made everything so much easier.  He often did not wait  for instructions, but knew, instinctively, when something needed to be attended to and did it.  He was the perfect right hand man to all of us while sitting at his desk and pulling all the strings.Someone else who is not seen very often unless you look for him is our caretaker and custodian and caterer, all rolled into one.  Tim Bishop, and his wife Irene, responded to the needs as they arose and always reminded us to smile.  Tim and Irene went out of their way especially to ensure our shared kiddushes and break the fast were not just delicious, but inviting as well, with flowers and little touches that went way beyond what they needed to do to consider it a done job.  When you see them next, please say thanks for everything.
Throughout the last more than several weeks leading up to the High Holy Days, more than a few people helped in very specific ways.  My wife Marlene did a bang up and very successful job with our annual Yizkor Book campaign with the help of Serge Chriqui and Bernice Caplan and Fanny Dolansky.  Marilyn Lackie and her team spent a morning making the kugels which have always been such a treat and will continue to be served at our kiddushes on Shabbat.   The Re-entry Committee under the leadership of Mark Steinman met more than once or twice to decide collectively what the protocols would be for participation and entry to the building.
Many of you responded more than generously to the call for donations in support of the various events of the last ten days and we all know nothing happens in any synagogue without funds to underwrite it.  We thank all of you who have been elsewhere acknowledged for your generosity.Finally,  a special and profound thank you to all of you who withstood all the many upsets over these past 30 months of Covid-related restrictions and the demands about finally getting into the building and came to services sometimes each time, sometimes more than once and sometimes, just one time. It is you who we celebrate the most because without your support, we would have nothing.
Now…..onwards…….Shabbat Chol HaMoed Sukkot – October 15th – Join us in the Sukkah after services for a light lunch and the dedication of our new Sukkah.
Howard

 

Posted  September  13, 2022

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Good evening fellow congregants. It is hard to believe how quickly the days are flying by. In less than two weeks, we’ll be observing the High Holy Days together in person for the first time in three years. We have slowly been attending to all the many tasks that are required to ensure these first Chaggim services in our building are everything they should be.

You already know that our part-time rabbi, Moshe Meirovich, will not be with us as originally planned. You will be pleased to know that he has made steady progress and is scheduled to return home on September 22nd. However, we cannot know yet just how close he will be to full strength when that happens so, in his stead, his twin brother Harvey will once again grace our pulpit. All those details are already in place.

We will begin mapping out just what services will look like and when they will start and end later this week and will let you know as soon as those details are decided upon.  Our reentry committee has been discussing and negotiating just what we will to do collectively and singly to guarantee everyone’s health and safety. You will see at the end of this message what we have determined as the status for the High Holy Day and Chaggim period. As you review them, please bear in mind that we want to guarantee that EVERYONE will feel comfortable and able to participate in person. Not everyone is keen to return to complete normalcy and yet we want them to feel safe from infection. As well, we want you to understand that we live in very unstable and sometimes very hostile times. We cannot take for granted our personal safety the way we used to. So the items below represent our best efforts to meet both the health and physical challenges facing us this fall.

All that having been said, we wish each and every one of you and your extended families a happy and a healthy and a sweet new year and we look forward to worshipping and feasting with you as we have in the past.

On behalf of your entire board, I am,
Dr. Howard Slepkov, President and Board Chairman.

PROTOCOLS FOR THE HIGH HOLIDAYS AT C. B. I.

EFFECTIVE FROM SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 25TH THROUGH TUESDAY, OCOTBER 11TH

A: MASKING WILL BE MANDATORY IN THE SANCTUARY

B: PROOF OF VACCINATION WILL NO LONGER BE REQUIRED.
BUT VACCINATIONS ARE STRONGLY RECOMMENDED FOR EVERYONE ATTENDING

C: FOR SECURITY PURPOSES, ALL MEMBERS AND GUESTS MUST PRE-REGISTER FOR EACH OF THE SERVICES THEY WILL ATTEND.

  • 1. REGISTRATION FOR FIRST DAY OF ROSH HASHANAH
  • 2. REGISTRATION FOR SECOND DAY OF ROSH HASHANA
  • 3. REGISTRATION FOR KOL NIDRE
  • 4. REGISTRATION FOR YOM KIPPUR DAY
  • 5. REGISTRATION FOR YOM KIPPUR BREAK-FAST

Posted September 2nd, 2022

Dear Fellow Congregants –  

As some of you will already have noticed, there were get well wishes sent to Rabbi Moshe Meirovich in this morning’s eMessage.  Yesterday, the rabbi emailed Fanny and I to inform us that he was in hospital. We already knew that his grandson’s bar mitzvah, previously scheduled for last Monday in our sanctuary, had to be moved because he had had a bad reaction to his fourth inoculation shot the week prior.  It seems that was caused by an already present infection which landed him in hospital and now having to go to a rehabilitation centre for some days or weeks to fully recuperate.

Needless to say, the rabbi was very concerned about his ability to spend the High Holy Days with us as per his contract and our mutual plans.  But, he had already anticipated what that would mean for us and being concerned about that, he discussed it with his twin brother Harvey.  Hopefully, you will all recall it was Harvey’s time here with us four years ago (I think) that led us to Moshe.  They are both graduates of the Jewish Theological Seminary, by the way.  The end result, after having consulted first with the executive of the congregation and then the entire board, is that Rabbi Harvey Meirovich will once again grace our pulpit for the High Holy Days.   He is currently living in Israel with his wife and serves as a member of the faculty at the Conservative Yeshiva in Berlin part time.  But he has children and grandchildren in Toronto so it all works out.  Both brothers have considerable skills as pulpit rabbis, teachers, and cantors.

We are extremely fortunate that we were able to take this change in direction under our belts as quickly as we did and we know that we will end up having the kind of haymishe, meaningful, and spiritually uplifting High Holy Days observances that we all want for this first year back after the disruptions of the Covid-caused pandemic.  Planning will continue to move ahead and we’ll keep you informed of our progress.  

Shabbat shalom to everyone and enjoy the Labour Day long week-end, a tradition as Canadians we have all come to realize means the end of summer and the long slide into snowy roads and hills.  

Howard

Dear Fellow Congregants

The Yamim Noraim or Aseret Yeme Teshuva are now only five weeks away. We are thrilled to be able to announce that it is full steam ahead for the offering of services in our beautiful sanctuary once again. We include in this planning, opportunities on both the first and second days of Rosh Hashanah for congregational light kiddushes, as well as a full break the fast after Neilah at the end of Yom Kippur. We are waiting and watching to see how Niagara Public Health views the status of Covid- 19 infections the first week in September. Only then will we finalize policies around masking, social distancing and so forth, but we are hopeful. However, desire does not always bring the result hoped for. Let’s all keep our fingers crossed as we all want to enjoy the High Holy Days together and in person.

Our High Holy Days team, led by Rabbi Moshe Meirovich and, we know, ably assisted by Fanny Dolansky, Serge Chriqui, and others are proceeding with the plans required to provide the community with a meaningful observance of the Holy Days of Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur.

The High Holy Days Yizkor Companion Book of Remembrance, which was produced in years past, is once again being updated and will be distributed to the community in the time-honoured way, the morning of Yom Kippur. We thank the committee led by Marlene Slepkov for their efforts, and the community members who have stepped forward with financial contributions to help cover the costs. If you have not done so, please contact the office and inform Serge of your intentions.

We thank the members of Congregation B’nai Israel who have stepped up and already met their financial commitment to the synagogue for the current year. If you have not yet made arrangements for payment, please contact the office to do so. Prompt payment provides us with the financial stability to continue to offer the programming, both in real time and virtual, that the community desires and has come to expect from C. B. I.. As you know, your commitment can be met by credit card, cheque, cash, or the novel idea of stock transfer. In these troubled times, filled with expressions of hate and intolerance in so many places, our synagogue remains our strongest defence and a voice of reason against these dangerous tides. We must stand against these dangerous tides. We must stand strong and united.

We wish everyone a peaceful, and healthy, and sweet 5783.

Dr. Howard Slepkov and your Board of Governors

Posted July 13, 2022

Good evening fellow congregants.  I hope this finds all of you enjoying our summer weather in good health.  

I wanted to thank those of you who have been coming out for the minyanim that have occurred these past couple of weeks while Marlene and I were away visiting our daughter and her family in Minneapolis. I know that there have been successful minyanim both weeks and more than enough on the two Shabbatot.  You realize that by attending you are fulfilling one of the most important mitzvot in our tradition, making it possible for those who wish to, to daven and say kaddish when necessary.  Yashir koach to everyone

Our community has had more than its fair share of difficulties with attaining a minyan during the week especially over the years.  As a young man, I can remember someone running down the street to where there was a Jewish family living and pulling one or both of the men in that family to help make the minyan.  But only once in all my years involved with services did we ever not have a minyan at the home of a mourner.  That is quite an accomplishment and says a great deal about our commitment to one another. Again, yashir koach.

This is just a reminder that we are hoping to continue with a Thursday morning minyan right through  the summer with your help.  Summer is vacation time and tomorrow, I know of two regulars who are away, so if you are able, please come for 8:00 services.

Thanks so much and see you in shul.

Howard

Posted June  29th, 2020
Our community home since 1925 when the synagogue was opened and 1954 when the Newman Memorial Building was added.

Dear Friends & Fellow Congregants –

It is hard to believe that it is the end of June already.  We have had an interesting but mostly successful end to our isolation from one another and the return to much of what we were used to in March of  2020.  We have  returned to in person services and the serving, for now, of light refreshments.  We’ve welcomed our first group of visitors with a visit to the sanctuary.  We have even, although regretfully, returned to unrestricted funerals and shiva visitations.  All these have been undertaken thoughtfully and carefully, always mindful of your health and well-being.

We are in the process of securing programming for the end of August and into September.  Watch for announcements for the first meeting of the Yiddish club, a guest speaker, Yaron Darom, the Israeli representing The Jewish Agency in Canada, a welcome back to the veteran and a welcome to the new members of our congregation and community, and more to come.  That’s just for the end of summer and prior to the High Holy Days.

We look forward to seeing more of you back in our facilities and greeting those of you who have never been in those same facilities.  Have a wonderful and healthy summer and stay well.

Howard Slepkov on behalf of the officers and board of C. B. I.

Posted June 8th, 2022.

Dear Friends & Fellow Congregants

It seemed so easy at the time.  Just close the doors and stop all activities.  It was like pulling on the emergency brake in a train.  You would think that starting up again would be almost as easy.  WRONG! Each step back into our building has been unnerving and required so much forethought and preparation.  But we ARE getting there.

Last Shabbat we had a very successful Shavuot – themed Kiddush in the upstairs social hall with about 35 souls in all.  We had delicious cheesecakes, fruits, challah, wine and a good bottle of scotch.  We are tempting the fates again this week not once but twice.  We are offering up coffee and cheesecake, some frozen hamantaschen baked for Purim and fruit tomorrow morning after our regular Thursday minyan.  On Shabbat, with many thanks to the Steinman family, we will participate in the synagogue version of Mark grandson’s, Isaiah Steinman Gould’s bar mitzvah two years after the Zoom version and will celebrate the event with pastries, fruit, coffee and all the other regular Shabbat essentials afterwards.  I guess we can fly the banner…….WE’RE BACK!  

Hopefully, you’ll be back with us.  See you in synagogue, I hope.

Howard

 

Posted May 31st, 2022

This is just a reminder that Shavuot begins at sundown this Saturday, June 4th.

Shavuot is the third of the three harvest festivals.  Succot and Pesach are the other two.  Since we no longer observe the festival at the Temple Mount in Jerusalem, modern Jewry has adopted a new tradition, the eating of dairy products and foodstuffs, just like in the graphic.  Of course, that is in addition to the mitzvah of hearing the Ten Commandments read in the synagogue and participating in the Yizkor service on the second day of the festival.

Please remember to join us after Shabbat services on this Saturday, June 4th for a light kiddish of, of course, wine and challah and then…..cheesecake, coffee and tea AND FELLOWSHIP.  We’ll make it very socially distanced since we’ll set out foods in the auditorium, with a few tables and ONLY A FEW CHAIRS for our seniors.  We hope you will join us.  Then also remember to sign up for Yizkor service on Monday morning on Zoom with Rabbi Moshe Meirovich.

Watch for the invitation to register for both events later this week and don’t forget to register when prompted in the eMessage at the end of the week.

We are looking so forward to seeing many of you come out of isolation, wearing your masks, observing Shabbat together and then celebrating our community.  SEE YOU ON SHABBAT.

Posted  May 18th, 2022
Central staircase of the Museum of the Jewish People

Dear Fellow Congregants & Friends:

On our last day in Tel-Aviv, last week, Marlene and I took the train to the Tel-Aviv University train stop and walked up to the brow overlooking the fascinating city, spread out before our eyes.  Our destination was the Museum of the Jewish People located on the campus.  This fascinating, recently renewed and reimagined museum seeks to tell the story of the evolution of the Jewish people and our religious identification over 25 centuries or more.

The point of departure for one’s visit is a series of over-sized screens which show brief videos of contemporary members of our people but  each is from another of the many diverse locations that our people have landed, so to speak, in the modern world.  One screen shows a very traditional, orthodox man and another an enthusiastic entirely modern reformed, female rabbi and yet another one a young couple, partnered but cohabiting and seeking to raise a family. The videos, some 20 in all, are meant to present the visitor with pictures representing the diversity of practice of the Jewish people, world wide.   Each of the profiled individuals walks up to the camera, introduces themselves, then explains just what being Jewish means to them.

The one thing all the voices have in common is their complete identification with the Jewish people and its collective destiny.  Each seeks to define their Jewishness in various ways but they all stake out a claim to be a member of our very large extended family, the Jewish people.   They all also represent different communities of practice but one and only one people.  Am Yisrael.

Our people have survived over two millennia because each generation saw itself in a long line of succession, and each called themselves Jews, albeit of one kind or another.  These videos are very powerful because they express one essential idea – it is good to declare one’s membership in the nation of Israel and we are stronger because we insist on the essence of our Jewishness, no matter what community we find ourselves in.

One way we can make our own contribution to the continuity of our people is by participating in the community.  That’s why it is important we strive to keep our Thursday and Shabbat morning minyanim alive – not for ourselves but for the community as a whole.  Please consider attending services this Thursday or this Shabbat OR both and make it a weekly or monthly time you set aside to support one another in the expression of our Jewishness.  All those individuals I referred to above reflected hope and joy and a sense of identity.

PLEASE SIGN UP FOR SERVICES WHEN YOU ARE ABLE AND ENSURE OUR CONTINUITY IN A VERY REAL WAY, BUT FOR THE BENEFIT OF ALL OF US.  MAKE SURE YOU SIGN UP WHEN YOU GET THE INFORMATION FROM SERGE.  

See you in shul.

Howard

 

P. S. Don’t forget we have in-person Services tomorrow and every other Thursday and every Shabbat morning throughout the summer.  Make it a habit to attend.  We welcome your attendance always.